I TOOK A TEST AND WAS SURPRISED AT HOW ACCURATE THE RESULTS WERE. THERE WERE ONLY 2 MULTIPLE CHOICE QUESTIONS. ANYWAY, HERE ARE THE RESULTS.

the Asserter

you chose AY - your Enneagram type is EIGHT (aka "The Challenger").

"I must be strong"

Asserters are direct, self-reliant, self-confident, and protective.

How to Get Along with Me

* Stand up for yourself... and me.
* Be confident, strong, and direct.
* Don't gossip about me or betray my trust.
* Be vulnerable and share your feelings. See and acknowledge my tender, vulnerable side.
* Give me space to be alone.
* Acknowledge the contributions I make, but don't flatter me.
* I often speak in an assertive way. Don't automatically assume it's a personal attack.
* When I scream, curse, and stomp around, try to remember that's just the way I am.

What I Like About Being a Eight

* being independent and self-reliant
* being able to take charge and meet challenges head on
* being courageous, straightforward, and honest
* getting all the enjoyment I can out of life
* supporting, empowering, and protecting those close to me
* upholding just causes

What's Hard About Being a Eight

* overwhelming people with my bluntness; scaring them away when I don't intend to
* being restless and impatient with others' incompetence
* sticking my neck out for people and receiving no appreciation for it
* never forgetting injuries or injustices
* putting too much pressure on myself
* getting high blood pressure when people don't obey the rules or when things don't go right

Eights as Children Often

* are independent; have an inner strength and a fighting spirit
* are sometimes loners
* seize control so they won't be controlled
* figure out others' weaknesses
* attack verbally or physically when provoked
* take charge in the family because they perceive themselves as the strongest, or grow up in difficult or abusive surroundings

Eights as Parents

* are often loyal, caring, involved, and devoted
* are sometimes overprotective
* can be demanding, controlling, and rigid



The Enneagram Made Easy

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FIRST OFF, I AM VERY MUCH INTO S/M. I AM COMFORTABLE BEING EITHER DOMINANT OR SUBMISSIVE. I WOULD ENJOY MEETING SOMEONE WITH A COMMON INTEREST IN S/M THAT UNDERSTANDS THAT IT IS NOT ALL ABOUT SEX, BUT ABOUT LEARNING AND GROWING AS A PERSON. YES I DO LOVE A GOOD FIRM SPANKING THAT LEAVES SOUVINERS, AND I HAVE NO PROBLEM MAKING SOMEONE GET ON THEIR KNEES AND DO WHAT I TELL THEM TO. PROVIDED IT IS SAFE, SANE AND CONSENSUEL. UNFORTUNETLY I HAVE YET TO FIND ANYONE THAT CAN BE COMFORTABLE WITH BOTH ROLES. SO FINDING SOMEONE THAT IS SECURE WITH THEMSELVES ENOUGH TO LET ME BE MYSELF IS A REAL TURN ON. AND I AM VERY ATTRACTED TO GOOD LOOKING WHITE MEN THAT ARE ABOVE 6'2 AND HAVE GOOD IMAGINATIONS, SENSE OF HUMOR, CONFIDENCE AND ARE SECURE ENOUGH WITH THEMSELVES TO ALLOW SOMEONE ELSE TO TAKE CONTROL EVERY NOW AND THEN. HEHEHE

I LIKE TO THINK THAT I AM PRETTY OPEN AND NON JUDGEMENTAL, BUT THERE ARE SOME THINGS THAT ARE JUST MAJOR TURN OFFS FOR ME. ANIMALS, DEAD PEOPLE, KIDS, FAMILY MEMBERS, OR SHIT PLAY. THOSE THINGS ARE NOT FOR ME. OTHER THEN THAT I AM OPEN TO NEW EXPERIENCES PROVIDED THEY ARE SAFE. RUDENESS, IS NOT ACCEPTABLE. FAKE, MATERIALISTIC, JUDGEMENTAL, OR JUST LOOKING FOR SEX WILL GET YOU NO WHERE.

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